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He Knows His Plans For Us
July 21, 2017 – 9:12 pm | No Comment

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” –Jeremiah 29:11, NKJV

Dear Sisters and Friends,

How are you?

Really, how are you doing? Are you walking with the Lord? Is He on your mind every day? Do you struggle with the stress of life in the world, while knowing that you are called to be in it and not of it? Are you hurting or lonely? Do you celebrate your victories, and find courage to keep seeking His call on your life?

We are doing the same.

Life is hard, at least for us. Getting older doesn’t mean that things always get easier. Maybe some of our battles are won, but others come and try to take us out, to get the better of us. But if we are in Christ, we know it will NEVER get our best, because He is our highest and best, and He can’t be taken from us.

These past seasons since Lisa, Trophy of Grace, went to be with the Lord, have been long and difficult. We have faced trials that, as the Apostle Paul once said, have made us despair even of life (2 Cor. 1:18). Yet, God always shows Himself faithful. We live. We work. We pray for healing. We trust. And we keep believing in Him to do what we cannot, so He will get the glory.

We do not know what the future holds for us, for you, or for WeUsed2bu. But we know Who does, and He not only gives us His hope, He IS our hope. We will keep trying to meet your needs as long as the Lord allows. He called us to this ministry, and we will trust Him to do the good work He began until He says it is completed. We love you, and we are thankful for you allowing us to speak into your lives.

“I now rejoice in my sufferings for you, and fill up in my flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ, for the sake of His body, which is the church, of which I became a minister according to the stewardship from God which was given to me for you, to fulfill the word of God, the mystery which has been hidden from ages and from generations, but now has been revealed to His saints. To them God willed to make known what are the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles: which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. Him we preach, warning every man and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus.  To this end I also labor, striving according to His working which works in me mightily.” –Colossians 1:24-29.

Love always, sisters.

Beloved by Him


Born This Way: My Journey From Sexual immorality To Total Deliverance
February 9, 2016 – 9:57 am | 2 Comments
Born This Way: My Journey From Sexual immorality To Total Deliverance

(Note to readers: Contains graphic content.)
Until now, I have never confessed my greatest secret to anyone. For more than 25 years, I firmly kept hidden the one thing about me that could change the …

We’re Back
August 17, 2015 – 11:21 am | 4 Comments
We’re Back

The counselors of WeUsed2bu are (just about!) done with their summer break, and will be taking questions again. If you had previously left a question over the break, it will be answered shortly. Thanks for …

We Are On Summer Break
June 19, 2015 – 7:38 am | No Comment
We Are On Summer Break

The counselors of WeUsed2bu will be on break for summer. We will return August 17 for questions. Until then, feel free to search the extensive archives of Q & A’s and articles that can be …

Happy Easter!
April 6, 2015 – 8:50 am | No Comment
Happy Easter!

May you be filled with joy as you remember the sacrifice and resurrection of Jesus our Savior!
“Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!” 2 Corinthians 9:15, NKJV