So I Have Been At A Stand Still
Myspace friend write…
I need advice. Im a 26 year old wit a 2 year old. It seems every since i had my son i haven’t been able to work. Me and my fiance are together. So i cant get boy type of assistance. He isn’t makin enough to put our son in daycare. So i have been at a stand still. Im startin to become stressed out from not bein able to have a life. I love my fiance wit all my heart. But im ready for a change. I wana move to texas wit mom to start my job or school life. But i dont feel its right leavin my spouse behind. I need advice! Thanks
His Precious Gift replies…
I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed out and you feel you don’t have a life, but you need to consider the obvious situation and realize that your problem has a solution if you are willing to do the the right thing. You said you are ready for a change, but you love your spouse; well, he is not your spouse, since you are not married to him–he is the father of your child. I need to tell you that the only advice I can give you would be biblical and it is this: the major consequence of sin is that it separates us from God…While you are living in sin (which is living independently of God’s standard–knowing what is right, but choosing wrong) God’s word says, “Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.” (James 4:17) What is the solution to not being separated from God, you might ask? Believe in Jesus Christ as the only way to the Father. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’”
I can’t tell you to leave your fiance, and I can’t tell you to move with your mother to Texas. That has to be your own decision. But what I can tell you is that I know the One that can give you eternal life, and the wisdom and peace to make the right decisions. Jer. 29:11 says, “I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” If you have never received Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior, and you want to be fully forgiven and become the person He created you to be, all you need to do is simply ask Him to forgive your sins, thank Him for dying on the cross for you, invite the Holy Spirit to come to live in your heart, and also ask Him to help you be the person He created you to be, giving Him full control of your life. John 5:24 says, “I tell you the truth, whoever hears My words and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life.”
One thing I am sure of is that our Lord is the God of new beginnings, and I will encourage you to read The Word which is full of guidance and life. All the books are great, but I love the book of John. It will teach you about His unconditional love, His peace, healing power, and also obedience and patience.
Always remember we are here for you, I will continue to pray and ask the Lord to guide your heart.
Love you,
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