Written by: Trophy of Grace

 A couple of months ago I had the privilege of sitting with 5 Christian men from the Ocean Edge School Of Music who allowed me to pick their brains about what they are looking for in a potential girlfriend or wife. After sitting with them. It became even more apparent to me that the enemy has been working over time through media and entertainment to destroy our (women’s) preception of what good guys are really looking for in a woman. Many of us have allowed ourselves to be conformed to the world’s idea and image of what it thinks we should look and act like in order to get the right guy.

Well these guys have a different view. Ladies there is a hope! There are some good guys still out there.

Here’s what they had to say..

“What do you look for in a girlfriend?”

Jason from Wales, Australia married with 2 children and one on the way. Says the top 3 things he looked for were,

“#1. A godly woman who wanted to serve God with her whole heart, mind, and soul. #2. A woman that truly loves God. This may seem the same, but it’s different. #3. This may not seem normal but, A woman who is truly more beautiful on the inside than on the outside. That is when you’ve found the one!”

Angel from Florida says..

“Same as Jason. But I think a woman that loves children and old people. A woman with a true servants heart.”

Peter from California is a drummer who’s currently looking for a godly woman says,

“I go for cute not for hot. I want a girl who is genuine with the way she acts. Not pretending to be something that she’s not.”

Does the way a girl dresses matter?

Jason says,

“Yes! She should dress appropriate for the occasion. Heels and short skirt all the time is tacky.”

What do you think when you see a girl that looks provocative or hoochie?

Noah from Alaska says,

“I start to think how many guys has she been with? Can she be trusted if she’s dressing like that. Some girls are looking for attention from other guys, not only from their boyfriend. I would assume our relationship wouldn’t last because I probably wouldn’t trust her. I wouldn’t even pursue a relationship unless I wanted something from her. It wouldn’t be anything serious.”

Mike also another drummer who’s looking for a wife says,

“I laugh. I think it looks trashy.”

What would you do if she threw herself at you?

Mike adds, “I would run from her. Girls shouldn’t be throwing themselves at guys.”

Would you be ok with your girlfriend having a lot of guy friends?

Angel says, “A lot of guy friends or friends can be sticky, especially if she calls everyone her BFF. She would be sharing herself with so many people. Sharing herself with other guys wouldn’t be good. There are emotions involved with that.”

Noah shares an experience,

“In the past I have been too trusting with an old girlfriend. For a year she had the guy friend she was close with who she ended up kissing. When I asked her how she felt about him she said that she really didn’t know how she felt. She didn’t want to be with him because he was fat and had bad language, but she still kissed him. I don’t think I would be ok with it again.”

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