Purity is Essential
January 31, 2012 – 10:11 pm | No Comment

Written by Lynn Mosher
Cross post from Heading Home
“God blesses those whose hearts are pure,
for they will see God.”
(Matthew 5:8 NLT)
 
Continuing with the beatitudes…
 
“Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be …

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Is Dry-Humping OK?
February 1, 2012 – 11:48 pm | No Comment
Is Dry-Humping OK?

Anonymous writes…
Hello,
I’ve been dating a nice guy for 5 months and we have had a great relationship. We talk to each other about almost everything and we try to help each other walk closer to …

Guilt Of Giving Up My Purity
January 12, 2012 – 11:23 am | No Comment
Guilt Of Giving Up My Purity

Recently Saved writes…
Hi,
I have been on this page for not too long, and God is telling me that I can find the answers to my problems here. I just turned 19, and I rededicated my …

I Know That Sex Should Wait For After Marriage, But I Am Not Sure About The Doing The Other Stuff.
January 6, 2012 – 2:42 am | No Comment
I Know That Sex Should Wait For After Marriage, But I Am Not Sure About The Doing The Other Stuff.

A writes…
I’ve been getting into conversations with my friends about sex before marriage and doing other stuff before that. I know that sex should wait for after marriage, but I am not sure about the doing …

Could You Tell Me How Far Is ‘Too Far’?
December 5, 2011 – 2:34 pm | No Comment
Could You Tell Me How Far Is ‘Too Far’?

Anonymous writes…
I have a question. I’m hoping you can help me with. I guess I just need some Godly advice. I want to do what’s right and I want to live in such a way …

You Are So Much More Than Clothes, So Much More Than A Body
November 15, 2011 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
You Are So Much More Than Clothes, So Much More Than A Body

Written by Cindee Snider Re aka Grace Rain
“Does that girl not have any clothes?” my friend whispered only loud enough for me to hear. I glanced at her eyes and discovered the source of her …

This Weekend He Kissed Me And We Ended Up Making Out
November 3, 2011 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
This Weekend He Kissed Me And We Ended Up Making Out

Anonymous writes…
Hi. I’ve started dating again. I’m dating a Christian guy that goes to my youth group. This past weekend he kissed me and we ended up making out. He says there is nothing wrong …

You Are Far Above Rubies
October 6, 2011 – 8:00 am | No Comment
You Are Far Above Rubies

Written By Paris Holt
Cross-post from Project Inspired
From Nicole: This is an important message from Project Inspired fan, Paris, to remind yourself how incredibly precious you are and why you should wait until marriage to have …

“Do You Want To Marry Him?”, If Not Then Why Are You With Him!?
August 19, 2011 – 8:00 am | No Comment
“Do You Want To Marry Him?”, If Not Then Why Are You With Him!?

Rachel comments on the post ‘Our Appearance’…
So true and I’m only 15!
It’s like, I never had a boyfriend before and I don’t intend to until I’m at least 18. This was not my parents decision. …

They Say, “But You Won’t Be Experienced & You Won’t Know How To Kiss Or Have Sex.”
June 15, 2011 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
They Say, “But You Won’t Be Experienced & You Won’t Know How To Kiss Or Have Sex.”

Anonymous writes..
Dear Treasure Box,
I tell people in my school that I don’t date . They ask me why and then I tell them about my heart and how I want to save it for my future husband and …

This Relationship Eventually Led To Me Losing My Virginity
March 24, 2011 – 11:34 am | No Comment
This Relationship Eventually Led To Me Losing My Virginity

Flowerchild comments back regarding the post,‘ My Advice To You Is Run’…
Thank you so much for this advice. To answer your questions,” yes” his mother is in his life. She is an albino black woman. …