Women Of Purity
February 8, 2012 – 8:00 am | No Comment

Ā Written by Carol Peterson
Treat…younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. (1 Timothy 5:2)
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When I was meditating on this scripture, I went to Merriam Webster to see what ā€œpureā€ means in our modern language. The definition …

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What Sex Can Do to a Dating Relationship?
November 2, 2010 – 3:36 pm | 2 Comments
What Sex Can Do to a Dating Relationship?

Written by guest author Richard Mansel
The lovely young woman sat hunched over on the couch, closing in on herself. Her tear-streaked face reflected the story that her mind struggled to relate. The raw pain …

What Is Your Daughter Wearing? Part 2
October 5, 2010 – 11:00 am | No Comment
What Is Your Daughter Wearing? Part 2

Continued from What Is Your Daughter Wearing Pt2
By Kat-The Treasure BoxĀ cross post from Kids-Faith Raising Godly Children
For Believers
Once you understand the problem, we as parents need to be able to answer the following questions:
• Do …

What Is Your Daughter Wearing? Part 1
October 4, 2010 – 10:00 am | No Comment
What Is Your Daughter Wearing? Part 1

By Kat-The Treasure BoxĀ cross post from Kids-Faith Raising Godly Children
Imagine this scenario - one that is all too real… You and your 15-year-old daughter are walking down the grocery aisle together. As you approach a …

Is There A Proper Way For A Chaste Girl Living In Obedience To Her Parents To Behave With A Boy Who Likes Her?
September 20, 2010 – 10:00 am | No Comment
Is There A Proper Way For A Chaste Girl Living In Obedience To Her Parents To Behave With A Boy Who Likes Her?

Dear Heart of Worship,
Thank you so much for your wonderful support, I feel so helped in my commitment to modest dress and chastity. Though, I have tried to write this message to you a few …

If The Boys Are Already Going To Be Tempted..
August 4, 2010 – 11:00 am | 2 Comments
If The Boys Are Already Going To Be Tempted..

Anonymous comments on the posting
Can I Still Look Cute & Sexy Without Looking Immodest?…
Me and my sis read this and she said that if the boys are alrady going to be tempted by other …

At My Church Events We Aren’t Allowed To Wear Tank Tops
August 2, 2010 – 11:00 am | No Comment
At My Church Events We Aren’t Allowed To Wear Tank Tops

Anonymous writes…
I just read the post about modesty- I still have one question. At my church events we aren’t allowed to wear tank tops. I have many tanks that cover my breasts completely, have wide …

Is Showing Your Legs Wrong
July 26, 2010 – 3:50 pm | No Comment
Is Showing Your Legs Wrong

Anonymous comments on the posting…
Questions on Dressing Modest..Does It Differ Based on Culture or Activity?
My sister said that if you know your values and since guys are going to look anyways it doesn’t really matter. …

I Am Going Through Alot of Changes And I Need Some Help
July 16, 2010 – 12:42 pm | No Comment
I Am Going Through Alot of Changes And I Need Some Help

Anonyous writes…
Hello, I’m a 15yr old girl looking for some advice or counseling. I have just started a new life committed to Jesus. I’ve committed being chaste before marriage and to being dressed modestly by …

Can I Still Look Cute And Sexy Without Looking Immodest?
July 5, 2010 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
Can I Still Look Cute And Sexy Without Looking Immodest?

Anonymous writes…
First of all I would like to thank you all for the amazing advice and articles all of you write. It helped me alot.
My question is about modest clothing.
I’m still struggling about the fact …

Do You Think It’s Okay For Me To Kiss My Boyfriend?
May 12, 2010 – 4:00 pm | No Comment
Do You Think It’s Okay For Me To Kiss My Boyfriend?

Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Anonymous writes…
Hi! I have been thinking about this for quite a while now, and I would like some advice from someone more mature than me… Do you think it’s okay for me to kiss …