Purity is Essential
January 31, 2012 – 10:11 pm | No Comment

Written by Lynn Mosher
Cross post from Heading Home
“God blesses those whose hearts are pure,
for they will see God.”
(Matthew 5:8 NLT)
 
Continuing with the beatitudes…
 
“Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be …

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Starving to Death and Cutting to Feel
October 16, 2011 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
Starving to Death and Cutting to Feel

Wordless writes…
Hi,
I’ve been debating how to ask this or what to ask. My questions are numerous and complicated. See, I have these two friends who are both very dear to me and I love them …

My Life Is Really Difficult Right Now
June 22, 2011 – 8:00 am | No Comment
My Life Is Really Difficult Right Now

Anonymous writes…
Precious in His Sight,
I am really in need of care and advice. My life is really difficult right now, and I have no one to turn to, not even God. Everything was great up …

How Do You Build Self-Confidence
March 28, 2011 – 8:00 am | No Comment
How Do You Build Self-Confidence

Written by Missionista

The most important thing to have as a woman is self-confidence! That’s at least what all the popular fashion programs and magazines say:
* If you want to stand out with your style, you …

I’m So Confused In Many Aspects Of My Faith
September 3, 2010 – 10:00 am | No Comment
I’m So Confused In Many Aspects Of My Faith

Anonymous writes…
Well where to start really, I’m 16 and have been a christian for many years though recently I’m so confused in many aspects of my faith. I feel at such a low in my …

It’s Not Fasting If You’re Anorexic
July 14, 2010 – 11:08 am | No Comment
It’s Not Fasting If You’re Anorexic

Bought with Blood writes…
Hey, it’s the anorexic chic again. Yah, I’m still anorexic, but I told my boyfriend and shockingly he’s not only still wanting to be my boyfriend, but he prays for me everyday. …

I’m Afraid I’ve Lost My Connection To God At This Point
May 21, 2010 – 11:00 am | No Comment
I’m Afraid I’ve Lost My Connection To God At This Point

Anonymous writes back replying to ‘I love God so much but I’m anorexic and it’s been messing up my relationship with Him’
I really can’t thank you enough for the honest godly advice. I hope y’all …

With So Many Expectations & Spotlights Placed On Me I Don’t Want To Tell Anyone
May 4, 2010 – 2:00 pm | No Comment
With So Many Expectations & Spotlights Placed On Me I Don’t Want To Tell Anyone

Anonymous writes…
Hey, I read your testimony, which was totally beautiful and thanks for sharing it, and I thought you might have some good advice for someone like me and hopefully not judge me too harshly. …

I Love God So Much But I’m Anorexic & It’s Been Messing Up My Relationship With Him
May 3, 2010 – 2:42 pm | 3 Comments
I Love God So Much But I’m Anorexic & It’s Been Messing Up My Relationship With Him

Anonymous responds to posting ‘Between my the medical websites that say I’m destroying myself and that verse’…
Hey, thanks so much for taking the time to answer my question. It was actually an add-on to something …

Between The Medical Websites & That Verse I’m Not Sure God Loves Me
May 1, 2010 – 12:00 pm | No Comment
Between The Medical Websites & That Verse I’m Not Sure God Loves Me

Anonymous writes…
Also, for someone in my situation, how would you interpret 1Corinthians 3:17? Between the medical websites that say I’m destroying myself and that verse, I’m not so sure I can’t believe God still loves me. …

I Just Found Out My Friend Is A Cutter
December 30, 2009 – 1:00 pm | No Comment
I Just Found Out My Friend Is A Cutter

Anonymous writes…
I need help. I feel so confused right now. Just a few hours ago, I was IM-ing one of my friends and after a casual conversation, he told me he needed to tell me …