Enter Our Fall Giveaway!
August 26, 2014 – 9:26 pm | One Comment

Did you have a great summer? Are you looking forward to fall?  It’s time for back to school, sweater weather, and pumpkin everything! Enter our Fall giveaway, and you could kick off a season full …

Read the full story »
Dating God’s Way

The decision to date should be by divine appointment, as we allow our heavenly Father to choose who will be spending this special time with His daughters. Learn how to let God make all the arrangements, so you can enjoy the blessings of being in His will!

Get Anonymous Advice NOW!

We’re here to give you advice based on the truth of God’s Word and our life experiences. Please feel free to ask any question you’d like. We want to serve you.

Meet the Women of WeUsed2bu

Collectively, we’ve lived through many of the same experiences that teenagers and young women may go through at some point in their own lives. Read our stories..

Recent Questions & Answers

Here you will find a list of all the questions we’ve received and their answers. May you be led to the article that will help minister to you in your own circumstances.

Tools 4 Building Your Faith

Power-up your walk with God as you read Christian living articles that inform, strengthen and inspire. Equip yourself with the truth of God’s word!

Home » Answered By His Precious Gift, Feeling Overwhelmed, Recent Questions & Answers, School/College

I’m Just Tired Of Being Stressed Out And Being Ashamed

Submitted by on December 7, 2009 – 8:00 am2 Comments

Anonymous says…

bigstockphoto_learning_hard_423641So..I started at a new school. Much harder then my old school. I am a sophmore btw. I havn’t had the education that these kids have had, so I’m having trouble with my grades. My mom is a guidance counselor so she is very strict about my grades. I know if i don’t get good grades that I will have trouble getting into college because it is so competitive these days. But i feel like this is stressing me out way more then it’s supposed to. This is leading to thoughts of me thinking I will be come homeless. I want to be a missionary but my mom says i need a CAREER and that if i don’t have any money, i can’t make a difference. I have heard other wise..and that all we need is Jesus’s love. I am interested in medicine and maybe want to be a missionary-doctor. But this grades stuff is really getting to me. I sometimes tell myself that this life is only temporary and that even IF i do be homeless in the future or have financial problems in the future.. which i am not planning on happening..but if it does..it doesn’t matter because this life is only temporary. I am surrounded by kids that get much higher grades then i do and have had much better education then i have had and i am tired of being ashamed of myself because I am not like them. I’m tired of my teachers looking down on me just because I got a bad grade on something. And i don’t know what to do…My mom being a guidance counselor put me in all honors and 1 AP class but this school has much higher level education then my old school had. Part of me feels like I can handle these classes and another part of me feels like i can’t handle them. I’ve heard a song that says “When i don’t measure up to much in this life, I’m a treasure in the arms of Christ.” But I feel like it can’t relate to this situation. I’m just tired of being stressed out and being ashamed of my self with these grades.
~Anonymous.

His Precious Gift replies…

My precious sister,

It is so exciting to start a new school! In our minds we have all these expectations and goals that we want to accomplish and when we start a new season in our live’s, as you have done, sometimes we feel frustrated and anxious. But let me assure you first off that your heart is in the right place. Even though you are going through a time of adjustment and decision making, always remember that if you seek Him first He will always guide you.

bigstockphoto_gyrls_eye_-_perspe-1You are a child of God, you need to take your eyes off the problem and focus on Him and you will realize He’s already given you the Victory! God has a will, plan, and purpose for your life see Jeremiah 29:11-13. He will accomplish it if we obey Him. We will have difficulty in our live’s for a reason even when we don’t understand why we have to remember Roman 8:28 says “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

I know you are concerned with your grades and what the future will bring but God says in His word that “The thief comes ONLY to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full”. John 10:10. As I was praying and asking the Lord for a Word for you He keep giving me that scripture. Satan will steal your peace, kill your dreams, and destroy your future ONLY if you let him.

Let me tell you a little story: The desire of my heart has always been to help people so I started going to nursing school but I felt the same way you feel now. I used to say to myself, “I am not smart enough” and “I will never measure up to the rest of the class”. My grades were not great. So one day I started praying and God gave me a scripture that totally change my life, it was I Cor.2:16 the apostle Paul is teaching the church and it says “For who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.” From that moment on every time I had a test and every time I felt the enemy trying to oppress me I would quote that scripture over and over. Sometimes the students would laugh at me because they thought I was talking to myself, but little did they know I was telling the enemy that I was a child of the Most High and that Gods Word is powerful!

My sister it was incredible my grades got better, I graduated with honors, and I was the only person in the history of the school to get 100% in finals!!! And God has blessed my life in that field.

I tell you this because I want you to find your own Word from God just for you. Ask him and He will tell you and you will feel the same peace and assurance that everything is going to be alright.

I will keep you in my prayers. Think of yourself achieving each of your goals and doing the things God has put on your heart to do.

Psalm 20:4 “May he give you the desires of your heart and make all your plans succeed.”

Love you Bunches,

His Precious Gift

2 Comments »

  • Hello my sister, thank you so much for writing into our site for advice. Can I tell you this, I sometimes feel the same way that you do and it can be a little frustrating, but let me suggest three things that can help you recognize our Father’s voice:

    • Examine
    • Consult and
    • Pray

    The first thing that you want to do is examine the words that you are hearing. Write them down and read over them several times until it is embedded in your mind. (Habakkuk 2:2)

    Next, you should consult the bible with the words that you heard and wrote down. Use the dictionary/concordance at the back of your bible to help you find the meaning of the word(s) and the scripture that applies to the word(s) that you have heard. Read the scripture over and over meditating on it. You can also consult with a Youth or Small Group Leader or a Youth Pastor at your church with what you have heard.

    Finally, pray! The bible says that we should keep on praying! (1Thessalonians 5:17) The bible also tells us that we should not worry about anything instead pray about everything, telling God what we need and thanking Him for all he has already done! (Philippians 4:6) Go to God and talk to Him in prayer about what you feel you’ve heard and then just be still and wait on an answer from Him.

    God can also speak to you through a song. After you have prayed, in your stillness you can listen to music and begin to worship God and you can hear Him speak to you through the lyrics of a song. When that song touches your heart it will bring the answer that you are searching for.

    I know it sounds easy yet it can feel like such a difficult thing to do. But God can not speak to you in your frustration. God can not speak to you when you are all worked up and anxious. Remember that God speaks to us in a small still voice (1Kings 19:12) so remain on your guard for whenever His words are coming to you. (Habakkuk 2:1)

    In the book of 1 Kings chapter 19, when the prophet Elisha was running away in fear from Jezebel who wanted to kill him, he came to a cave where he spent the night. But the Lord came to him in the cave and asked him what he was doing there. When Elijah gave God his reason for being in the cave, God simply told him to go out and stand before Him on the mountain. God wanted a face to face talk with Elijah. Isn’t it better to have a conversation with someone face to face and not yelling across the room or speaking outside a door or speaking in a dark room (i.e. a cave)

    God wanted to remove Elijah from the cave where he felt fear, and bring him to safety on the mountain where He could talk to him directly. Elijah was obedient and God spoke to him there. Elijah was still before the Lord which helped him to hear from God clearly. The bible encourages us to be still and know that He is God. (Psalm 46:10)

    Take a moment of just stillness once you have prayed. As you are still, just listen. Listen for that still small voice that speaks sweetly to your heart. The bible encourages us to be quick to listen and slow to speak and then we won’t be so quick to get angry because we have not heard what we want to hear. (James 1:19)

    Don’t beat your self up and don’t allow the enemy to make you feel as though you are disobeying God over something that you are not at all clear about. Examine your thoughts, consult the bible and a leader, pray hard and be still to hear the voice of God speaking to you.

    I want to share with you one of my favorite songs. It is by Yolanda Adams and the title is “Be Still”. Let the words of this song minister to your heart and soul…

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-ciGVBQri4&feature=related

    Be blessed in the Lord always,

    Precious in His Sight

  • anonymous says:

    How do you know if the Word is from God and not just you thinking to yourself?How do you discern God’s Spirit from your pesonal thoughts? I am constantly thinking about it and it just frustrates me so much that I can’t hear clearly from God. And I feel like I’m disobeying God, but I don’t know what He wants me to do. I have like no peace in my spirit.

Leave a comment!

Add your comment below, or trackback from your own site. You can also subscribe to these comments via RSS.

Be nice. Keep it clean. Stay on topic. No spam.

You can use these tags:
<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>

This is a Gravatar-enabled weblog. To get your own globally-recognized-avatar, please register at Gravatar.

CAPTCHA Image
*

  • video
  • video
  • sex video doctor sex checkup online
  • asian mgps free xxx
  • free online sexy blonde girl porn
  • watch bikini cavegirl online
  • dick suck porn online
  • watch free porn of lesbians online
  • extreme throut fuck videos steaming online
  • online mind control erotic sex story
  • video
  • Naked videos online
  • video
  • porn videos free pay buy
  • online xxx porn free movie
  • free online sex vids father daughter
  • free online niger gym sex videos
  • online teen porn videos
  • buy sex toys online in japan
  • online female naked pictures
  • free online milf porn videos
  • teen girl fuck buys
  • haleythecamgirl shemale cum
  • watch free fuck videos online
  • video
  • free online little cocks porn movies
  • bouncing boobs online movies
  • japanese costume girls
  • sexy girls in naughty costumes
  • free online fingering videos
  • forced sex videos online
  • watch online free porn film video
  • free ebony lesbian video online
  • video
  • video
  • teen ass max hardcore mgp
  • free online hardcore anime action movies
  • video
  • free online malay sex videos
  • rated xxx couples porn online videos
  • free full sex video online
  • video
  • sexy blonde girls online webcams
  • watch bikini girls on ice online
  • wholesale black beauty supplies
  • free online way webcam sex
  • pussy porn video free online
  • porn cartoon movie online
  • hardcore sex gsmes online
  • free online amateur lesbian porn videos
  • camgirl carmen nipples
  • cheap black anal fisting dp dvd
  • naughty cheap mature sex
  • free sex videos online mike
  • topless college girls in elf costumes
  • video
  • erotic female porn free online
  • tube online video sex
  • priceless pussy public flash
  • sexy blonde girls online webcams
  • video
  • free online teen galleries
  • mature men circle jerk buy pics
  • video
  • free online porn handjobs
  • winston salem girls birthday party
  • free online sex webcam rooms
  • eric price porn movies
  • women porn free movies online
  • sleepimg porn tube videos
  • free online black muscle fucking videos
  • free online porn pics galleries
  • free anal sex online videos
  • erotic videos buy shop
  • video
  • bikini airways movie online
  • free pornstar movies online
  • video
  • video
  • free online naked sex videos
  • Teen panties for sale
  • video
  • video
  • guys fingering girls online techniques
  • telugu free online sex movies
  • girl orgasmgirl orgasm
  • petite pocket pants for sale
  • video
  • cost benefit analysis of young carers
  • video
  • pictures of pussy fuckimg
  • hardcore sex videos jizzonline
  • video
  • sex warrior isane images gallery online
  • party wear false breasts cheap fun
  • cheap asian analgesics
  • anal sex movies for sale
  • kate beckinsale naked video freee
  • wife orders husband naked
  • video
  • video
  • video
  • online husband and wife sex video
  • group sex in prison online
  • video
  • erotic female porn free online
  • asian mature women xxx cheap dvd
  • video
  • video
  • free online hardcore anime action movies
  • online movies chicks in prison
  • video
  • Sex full movies online
  • free online vintage porn movies
  • tiffany price handjob video
  • video
  • free online videos ass fucking
  • celebrity sex movies streaming online
  • blonde gallery post mgp
  • video blonde shows online heat
  • ladyboygold asian teen mgp
  • video
  • free costume sex videos
  • black history videos online
  • wholesale black lesbian porn dvds
  • free black online movies xxx
  • video
  • watch tyler clementi sex video online
  • video
  • video
  • black erotic novels online
  • online free home sex videos
  • jordan katie price hardcore video
  • video
  • video
  • online sex webcam teen girl
  • free asian porn videos online
  • Male couple put hdb void deck sex video online
  • massage anal online video
  • sexy teen girl costume nude
  • online free comedy sex movies
  • free online oral sex
  • video
  • free online video documentary female orgasm
  • free online naked girls vids
  • video
  • free online sex party porn
  • buy enema movies porn
  • video
  • full length porn movies online free
  • real porn videos online free
  • shaving sex on megavideo online
  • Indian sex online
  • asian girl costume
  • korean girls online video
  • video
  • video
  • Anal sex video online
  • pictures of buy hollys wife
  • online softcore b movies
  • free online celebrety sex vids
  • video
  • watch free porn movies online free
  • video
  • buy black moon movie
  • free online porn videos creampie gangbang
  • free online slave porn movies
  • live online lactating boobs videos
  • free online wildest black fuck movies
  • free online beauty salon pictures
  • naked costa rican wives
  • free online sex position video
  • video
  • video
  • bondage sex movies for sale
  • online tutorial guide to anal sex
  • xxx sex in costumes pics
  • Katie price nude images
  • free online family guy porn videos
  • free online simpsons porn vids
  • real female orgasm video for sale
  • video
  • moaning porn free online videos
  • video
  • nue young girls img bbs
  • free online amateur sex videos post
  • best porn movie to buy
  • hbo real sex videos online
  • watch mastasia videos online boobs
  • wholesale ethnic hair products black owned
  • girls having sex with weird thimgs
  • hien sex free online movies
  • video
  • online video girls eating pussy
  • free online lesbian porn subbs
  • sex eduion online videos
  • petite clothing wholesale
  • sex video for free online
  • video
  • free fuck buy webcams
  • kate beckinsale bikini pics
  • strawberry girl teen costume
  • babes free video online
  • black free videos online
  • cuckold mature black online
  • online erotic gift for my wife
  • video
  • video
  • view free asian movies online
  • online videos of naked girls
  • online free sex movie
  • costume sex tube videos
  • free young youmg girls pics
  • video
  • japanese online porn
  • hot girls sex online video
  • online girls for sex
  • black teen buying habits
  • video
  • video
  • free online tight teen pussy videos
  • video
  • online movies chicks in prison
  • video
  • video
  • asian lesbians online video
  • pictures of girls with eating disorders
  • video
  • free online porn videos in quicktime
  • free online porn streaming videos
  • video
  • costa rican women anal sex
  • Free online teens porn movies
  • ebony lesbians free online videos
  • video
  • teen titans girl robin costume
  • free online girl worlds for teens
  • video
  • playboy naughty amateur home video online
  • video
  • video
  • housewives sex movies online free
  • free full length sex vids online
  • video
  • amateur porn threesome dvds for sale
  • cheap teenage girl clothes
  • free online teens videos
  • video
  • video
  • costa mesa teen slut gallery
  • girls party dress discount
  • free online oon sex vids
  • video
  • carol costello bikini pics
  • jucie black booty xxxvideos free online
  • video
  • couples sharing online adult videos
  • free ebony girls xxx movie online
  • free online asian subtitled movies
  • wife sex costumes
  • video wont play online black
  • buy cheeky girls porn dvd
  • young redhead sex videos for sale
  • christine young online porn videos
  • alphabetical order of asian pornstars
  • free blowjob vids and pics online
  • video
  • free online porn with european chicks
  • online husband and wife sex video
  • video
  • sexy geisha girl costumes
  • free online blond orgasm pics
  • couples halloween party costume ideas funny
  • pictures of naked costa rica women
  • online men having sex videos
  • naked girls videos no online s
  • free online anal strecthing videos
  • babes in naughty costumes pictures
  • video sex online
  • online eating pussy
  • teen xxx vids online
  • best free online porn videos
  • online shopping for teenage girls
  • free vintage porn videos online
  • teen boys porn movies to buy
  • black history movies for sale
  • dance your ass off video buy
  • black online video sex sharing
  • video
  • amateur online club wives
  • katir price pictures sex movie
  • sleeping beauty video online
  • free online teen titan porn videos
  • discount designer petite suits
  • maxxxcock free porn videos online
  • video
  • video
  • free online bubble butt porn
  • online erotic massage video
  • free online casual sex videos
  • hardcore asian sex mgp
  • best online porn videos
  • costume fuck video
  • young thai girls for sale
  • free online cumming hardcore porn videos
  • free online teen sex movies
  • forced teens sex online
  • full length porn movies streaming online
  • sex party scottish borders
  • free online sites videos porn
  • korean girls online video
  • video
  • california asian dreamgirls hawaii
  • compare prices petite greenies
  • japanese amateur radio for sale
  • free online stories pussy eaters
  • video
  • group sex sites online wa
  • video
  • trix productions porn movies to buy
  • jucie black booty xxxvideos free online
  • punkrock girl naked online videos
  • Sex movies watch online
  • video
  • video
  • petite and short size halloween costume
  • adult swingers online videos
  • cheap online porn movies
  • solo girls sex dvds for sale
  • video
  • video
  • video
  • video
  • video
  • free online little girls sex videos
  • video
  • lesbian mgp girls milfs
  • free erotic stories and pictures online
  • free online erotic sex stories
  • video
  • girls gone wild movies online
  • free anal sex videos online
  • video
  • free girl on girl online porn
  • free movies mgp sex fucking
  • free asian movies online
  • free online young teen sex videos
  • indian real sex vids view online
  • order japanese black pines online
  • pumpimg fluid pussy insertions
  • video
  • video
  • free movies online big tits
  • video
  • free online amateur adult lesbian videos
  • sexy hero girl costume
  • erotic online sex stories
  • video
  • youmg party girl
  • video
  • video
  • free blowjob videos online
  • online hollywood sex videos
  • porn pictures of hallow ween costumes
  • video
  • youmg girls fingering themselves
  • naughty cheap mature sex
  • video
  • gang bang videos for sale
  • softcore nudes free online pics
  • Kate beckinsale nude pics
  • video
  • video
  • cheap sex toys and movies
  • video
  • video
  • hardcore penis videos online
  • video
  • free online black shemale porn
  • online sex with wife
  • forced sex videos for sale
  • erotic videos trailer free online
  • brother sister sex videos online
  • free online hardcore porn movies
  • girls on webcam online
  • sexy german babes in national costume
  • video
  • american beauty video discount
  • cuckold slut wife full lemgth movies
  • freehardcore sex videos online
  • azain girl fucked buy shemale
  • free online porn incesst videos
  • video
  • sleeping beauty online movie
  • free online porn video black ice
  • video
  • free black porn online videos
  • teen halloween costumes pictures
  • free online porn videos creampie gangbang
  • hollywood sex scenes movie online